Many of us are involuntarily in toxic relationships and a lot of us not don’t realize it until it’s too late! Maybe it’s scary for one to leave situations like these or the fear of not ever finding another partner in life stop you from getting out of toxic relationships.
In this episode of #TerkiniwithNandini Fly’s AM Mayhem and Nandini discuss how to find out if you’re in a toxic relationship?
Nandini and Fly’s AM Mayhem feel that people who are toxic give out traits that you can spot to find out if they could be potentially bad for you mentally, psychically and emotionally!
“I guess some of the red flags you can point out is the moment when you feel you are put down and it’s not a joke then that’s also like a red flag and you should take a step back and be brave in asking that person,cause a lot of manipulative and toxic people they get very scared when they have to explain their actions, when they cant explain their actions they start attacking!” – RD
Cause they understand that what they’re doing is wrong, but for them it’s a norm.”
“I would introduce my partner to my close friends, family members and have them get a feel of this partner of mine and if they feel that the vibe is right, so after this meet they can report to me.” – Hafiz
“I feel like it’s easier said than done. I feel it’s important to have and raise these sort of conversations from an objective point of view at the start of a relationship. Present these sort of situations, you can low key ask the person they’re stance, for example do you think rape is the victim’s fault and from that alone you can learn so much!” – Nandini
“If you are arguing for the sake of arguing that is a toxic relationship but if you’re arguing for for the sake of finding a solution for the both of you then that’s a real relationship! The worst part if the person has to have the last say!” – Guibo
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In conclusion, if it’s making you feel less worthy off, get out! You deserve a lot better!